
Cristina’s 12-Year Journey to the Pila
In the Chile Santiago West Mission in the late 1990s, the average conversion for a new member took place in two weeks or less. In 14 days or so, the investigator typically attended church twice, received all six discussions, had every concern resolved and received a baptismal interview. It was very rare to see someone investigate the church for more than a few months.
That is just the way it was.
If an investigator needed more time, that was fine, but missionaries generally moved on because other golden contacts were waiting.
Cristina was unique. Her conversion lasted about 12 years (144 months, 625 weeks and 4,380 days).
For 12 extensive years, this elderly woman was an active member the Los Cerrillos ward, received the discussions multiple times from multiple companionships, attending meetings week after week, magnified her callings and helping her sisters in the relief society. But for some secret reason, she declined to be baptized.
“No estoy lista (I’m not ready),” she told the missionaries for 12 lengthy years, always crushing their hopes.
Elder Kevin Bake and I met Cristina sometime in September 1998 as we were becoming acquainted with the ward and sector. We were pleased to find she had been attending church for so long that like many missionaries before us, we had baptism symbols in our eyes. Surely she would be our first baptism in the sector.
But Cristina proved to be elusive. She loved the church, but for some odd reason, this kind, elderly woman delighted in recounting the fruitless efforts of numerous missionaries to persuade her to enter the waters of baptism. She was a mystery and when we tried to talk to those close to her, we got nothing. What was holding her back? What was she afraid of? Was there something in her past she didn’t want to talk about?
There were many questions swirling and she was unwilling to provide the answers. So we prayed and felt the best course of action was to just to be a friend, show love and hoped at some point she would change her mind.
Over the next several months, we occasional stopped by, but little progress was made. She continued to attend meetings, but declined to discuss baptism. It would prove to be a test of our faith and patience.
More than four months and two companions later, Elder Strydar Argo and I stopped for a quick visit sometime during a hot week in early January 1999. I only had a month left of mission and really desired to see this nice woman get baptized. As we sat in her small living room, I felt the compelled to bring up the dreaded subject one more time.
However, this time I was more aggressive. What did we have to lose?
“Why won’t you get baptized?” I asked. “You know you can’t get to heaven without being baptized. Why don’t you want to receive forgiveness or your sins?”
Her response surprised us.
“I need a sign to know it’s the right thing to do,” Cristina said.
A sign? Elder Argo and I were dumbfounded. For someone who had been active in the ward, unofficially held callings in the relief society and witnessed countless baptisms over 12 years, there had to be a bigger concern hiding back there.
As we looked at each other, a scripture I had read that morning popped into my mind. I asked her to open with us to
Alma 32:16-21, which reads:
16 Therefore, blessed are they who humble themselves without being compelled to be humble; or rather, in other words, blessed is he that believeth in the word of God, and is baptized without stubbornness of heart, yea, without being brought to know the word, or even compelled to know, before they will believe.
17 Yea, there are many who do say: If thou wilt show unto us a sign from heaven, then we shall know of a surety; then we shall believe.
18 Now I ask, is this faith? Behold, I say unto you, Nay; for if a man knoweth a thing he hath no cause to believe, for he knoweth it.
19 And now, how much more cursed is he that knoweth the will of God and doeth it not, than he that only believeth, or only hath cause to believe, and falleth into transgression?
20 Now of this thing ye must judge. Behold, I say unto you, that it is on the one hand even as it is on the other; and it shall be unto every man according to his work.
21 And now as I said concerning faith—faith is not to have a perfect knowledge of things; therefore if ye have faith ye hope for things which are not seen, which are true.
As we related these words to her situation, Cristina changed. She realized what she needed to do. The words of verse 16 had touched something in her – “blessed is (s)he that believeth in the word of God, and is baptized without stubbornness of heart.”
That was all it took. After a 12-year wait, a date was selected and arrangements were made within minutes. She was baptized on Jan. 10, 1999, a month before I completed my mission. She later said getting baptized was one of the best days of her life.
Much to my regret, I missed Cristina’s baptismal service to attend a monthly meeting with the stake president and the mission president. As it turns out, President John Hadfield never showed. The service would have been more memorable.
Cristina also let me hear about it before consenting to a photo.
“How often do you get to attend the baptism of a 12-year investigator,” she scolded.
Old Maria
About a year earlier, in the nearby community of Ochogavia, Elder Matthew Weaver and I knocked on the door of an 80-year-old woman named Maria Villacorta.
The white-haired, feeble woman lived in a small apartment with family. They didn’t seem to care when we started to visit. She was a little hard of hearing, but sharp and enjoyed our visits and welcomed the message of the gospel. Before she died, she wished to be baptized by immersion like the Lord Jesus Christ.
We agreed to help her and she was excited when we showed her the baptismal font and explained how it would be done.
But getting her in the water proved to be more of a challenge that originally thought. Even though she lived minutes from the church, Maria was weak in her old age and required special care. On the day of her baptism, we paid for a taxi to take her too and from the church. Before we could get her in the taxi, her family, who had previously declined to even talk to us, protested us taking their grandma to the church. They thought we were going to kidnap her or something. When we invited them to come along, they relented.
Maria loved church meetings, but became cold and tired from sitting on the hard benches. When it came time for the service, she groaned and moaned that she just wanted to be taken home.
The eyes of the ward members were all on us as we tried to convince her to be baptized. A few members discouraged and suggested we take her home and try again another day, but we worried the 80-year-old might not come back.
Then something unexpected happened. A homeless woman who was often seen in the neighborhood came forth and calmed Maria down by speaking soothing words. This woman had requested baptism on many occasions, but had a laundry list of problems to deal with first. To our utter amazement, this foul-smelling woman in rags told Maria she could not get baptized, but Maria was ready and should do it right then. Even more amazing, Maria agreed.
The sound of church hymns seemed to raise the roof off the chapel as the service proceeded and Maria was baptized. The joy on Maria’s face was worth all the trouble.
Hard-Headed Javier
Toward the end of my time in Ochogavia, Paula Chavez, a stalwart member of the ward, introduced us to her husband Javier.
Paula was a golden member of the church who was always willing to feed and help us. Javier was a different story. Even thought the 41-year-old allowed his wife and children to attend the church, Javier had serious doubts about the church and was reluctant to talk with us.
I wish I had been more detailed in recording his concerns in my journal, but deciding whether or not Joseph Smith was a prophet was one we addressed.
Previous missionaries, including our zone leader Andrew Vigue had tried to teach Javier before and failed.
“There is no way that guy will ever get ‘tized,” Vigue had said once.
But we were not deterred. As long as he allowed, we visited and shared the gospel. With time, the Lord began to soften his heart. There were no spectacular moments in any discussion that led us to believe his heart was changing, but he simply continued to invite us back.
One day in February we were shocked when he informed us of his decision to follow Christ into the waters of baptism. Paula was moved to tears, as were many members of the ward, as Javier was baptized on Feb. 8, 1998.